Muhammad (saw) Had ordered us. And we should stay away
from the one who is not well mannered and gives no attention
to what Islam is about or what pleases or displeases
Allah (SWT). The bases for the actions of those who follow
the evil ways are corrupt; their actions are built upon misguidance
happiness and sadness. If we share our feelings with the wrongdoers
whose actions are worthless and based on corruption, then
we are following the same ways and standards as they are doing, and
we will end up being as corrupt as they are, and then we are in a
big trouble, how can we face Allah's (SWT) dissatisfaction and displeasure?
befriend the righteous, yet treat the rest in a gracious and just manner.
Staying at sufficient distance is necessary; yet treating everybody
in a noble and kind manner is required.
hands saying: O! Would that I had taken a way with
the Messenger! O woe is me! Would that I had not taken
such a one for a friend! Certainly he led me astray
and (2) Befriending a person who diverted one from the truth.
two things: firstly,divulging secrets; and secondly, friendship
with wicked persons."
and we are reckoned for our acts. Allah (SWT),
al-Muttaqun (i.e. those who have Taqwa/Piety)."
(Surah Az-Zukhruf, 43:67)
Excessive love and confidence in friends are unacceptable since it
happens that a friend may change into an enemy and use the secrets
that he had shown as weapons.
for he may be your enemy someday, and when you hate someone
you should hate him moderately for he may be your
friend someday." Also said: "If you intend to cut yourself off from
a friend, leave some scope for him from your side by
only those through which your enemies cannot harm you,
for a friend may change into an enemy."